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Dear Lily,


I understand that you are going through a difficult time in your personal
life, and I sincerely hope that you will find
a way to deal with it that is the best for you and your children.


I do understand how you feel. I also understand, however, that a marriage
can only break apart from the inside. I do
not appreciate your attempt to smear my reputation and paint me as the
home wrecker. You know as well as Yale does
that your marriage fell apart long before Yale and I even met. Whether or
not I am in Yale's life has nothing to do
with the eventual outcome of your marriage. I am sure you understand this
as well, but you nonetheless sought to burn
me on the cross as the scapegoat for your failed marriage, which I do not
believe is a mature thing to do.

Your description of the emotional damage your children have suffered is
disturbing indeed. I cannot help but wondering
what you have been telling them. I would think that a mother's first and
foremost priority is to protect her children
from any emotional damage, rather than using them as bargaining chips with
a spouse or as props to win public
sympathy. Yale is the children's father and will always be. I am sure he
will always love them and be the best father
he can be to them. Wouldn't it make more sense, for the sake of the
children's wellbeing, to emphasize to them that
both their parents will always love them even though one parent will not
be living with them all the time? I do not
see what benefit there could possibly be to teach the children to hate
their own father.

You asked me how it was like to sleep in Yale's arms. I also wanted to
ask you, Lily, why would you want to hang on to
someone who clearly does not want to be with you at all? Lily, you are
intelligent, highly-educated and you have a
high-paying and well-respected job. So why did you spend so much time and
energy trying to force someone who does not
care about you to stay with you? As a fellow woman I want to ask you
this, don't you think you deserve better? If
there's anything that is worse than sleeping in the arms of another
woman's husband, it is sleeping in the arms of
someone who resents you, cannot stand you and wants to run away from you
whenever he gets a chance. So Lily, why would
you want to put yourself in that situation? Once again, don't you think
you deserve better?

I sincerely hope that the pain you are currently feeling will subside soon
and you can turn a new leaf in your life.
Please remember, you can lose a job, you can lose a spouse, but you should
never lose yourself. And please, do not
vent your negative feelings on your children. They are innocent. Please
always keep in mind their best interests
rather than your own. You deserve true happiness, and I hope that you
will find it soon.

Best regards,


Diane
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